Close or space
See if they want the same amount of together as you do.
This one is about how much together-time feels good — free evenings, weekends, and “I need a little room.”
You’re not proving compatibility. You’re seeing whether they already have a feel for your pace.
Sample questions
- If we both have a free evening, my default is…
- When I say I need space, I usually mean…
- On a typical weekend, I hope we…